Too often we complain about our job: stupid supervisors, nasty “collegues”, desastrous policies, untenable circumstances. Your complaints might bring you relief, but just in a short-term. Soon you need to complain and accuse again…
Forgiveness doesn’t just bring short-term relief, but the long-term freedom necessary to strive for you own purpose and power. In that sense it is not an act of solidarity towards the others but towards yourself.
Never forget: What you focus on will become stronger. So, forgive and let go…
Step 1: Move On to the Next Act Step 2: Reconnect to Spirit Step 3: Don’t Go to Sleep Angry Step 4: Switch the Focus from Blaming Others to Understanding Yourself Step 5: Avoid Telling People What to Do Step 6: Learn to Let Go and Be Like Water Step 7: Take Responsibility for Your Part Step 8: Let Go of Resentments Step 9: Be Kind Instead of Right Step 10: Practice Giving Step 11: Stop Looking for Occasions to Be Offended Step 12: Don’t Live In the Past – Be Present Step 13: Embrace Your Dark Times Step 14: Refrain from Judgement Step 15: Send Love
My favourites are steps 4, 6 and 7. Which are yours?
Too often we complain about our job: stupid supervisors, nasty “collegues”, desastrous policies, untenable circumstances. Your complaints might bring you relief, but just in a short-term. Soon you need to complain and accuse again…
Forgiveness doesn’t just bring short-term relief, but the long-term freedom necessary to strive for you own purpose and power. In that sense it is not an act of solidarity towards the others but towards yourself.
Wayne W. Dyer’s 15 steps / strategies can help to find your way:
Step 1: Move On to the Next Act
Step 2: Reconnect to Spirit
Step 3: Don’t Go to Sleep Angry
Step 4: Switch the Focus from Blaming Others to Understanding Yourself
Step 5: Avoid Telling People What to Do
Step 6: Learn to Let Go and Be Like Water
Step 7: Take Responsibility for Your Part
Step 8: Let Go of Resentments
Step 9: Be Kind Instead of Right
Step 10: Practice Giving
Step 11: Stop Looking for Occasions to Be Offended
Step 12: Don’t Live In the Past – Be Present
Step 13: Embrace Your Dark Times
Step 14: Refrain from Judgement
Step 15: Send Love
My favourites are steps 4, 6 and 7. Which are yours?
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